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So, You’re on the Waitlist – Now What?

So, You’re on the Waitlist – Now What?

What a journey it has been!  You’ve researched retirement communities online, visited with staff, gone on countless tours, asked a million questions, and finally settled on one that is a great fit for you.  They don’t have the apartment you are looking for available just yet, so you put down a deposit and find yourself a member of your community’s future resident club.

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Now what?

For starters, you may want to take advantage of the opportunities that being a future resident presents.  You can participate in special community events created to help you get to know other residents and staff.  Once you have made a few friends, you can also enjoy a meal or two at the community and get a feel for the dining experience.  You may even want to spend an evening in a guest suite so you can get an idea of what it is like to spend an entire day there.

Something else to keep in mind – people can invest so much of their time and energy into finding the right retirement community that, when the time comes for the actual transition from home, they feel unprepared for the move. In addition to getting to know the retirement community better, your time in the future resident club also gives you a chance to get a head start on that transition process.  Here are a few things you can do to start getting ready for the move:

1+ Months Before Moving:

  • Create a floor plan of your new apartment and decide on furniture placement.
  • Get estimates from 3-4 moving companies and start a file for moving paperwork.
  • If not using moving company, reserve a rental truck.
  • Inventory your household goods and remove clutter – do it room-by-room.
  • Complete change-of-address notifications. Here are some examples:
    • Post office
    • Driver’s License
    • Vehicle Registration
    • Voter Registration
    • IRS
    • Medicare and Social Security
    • Insurance
    • Cell Phone Service
    • Bank and Investment Accounts
    • Physicians and Dentists
    • Book Clubs
    • Cable TV
    • Renter’s Insurance and Homeowner’s Insurance
    • Home Security System
    • Church
    • Magazine/Newspaper Subscriptions
    • Credit Cards
    • Notify Friends and Relatives
  • Obtain medical records, legal and financial documents, birth certificates, passports and insurance documents.
  • Clean and fix carpets, drapes, and anything in your home that needs repair.

2-Weeks Before Moving:

  • Schedule disconnect of all utilities the day after you are scheduled to leave.
  • Transfer prescription medications and have adequate supply on hand if needed.
  • Keep critical items like checkbooks, wallets, credit cards, flashlights, medications etc..in a separate, safe location so they can be accessed quickly and easily.
  • Arrange refund of any “last month” deposits that need to be returned.

7 Days Before Moving:

  • Pack a travel kit and suitcase with clothing and other personal items.
  • Pack a box of items that will be needed first at your apartment. Label it as such.
  • Confirm moving date and time with professional movers (unless you are moving yourself).
  • Anything that is going in your car should be set aside so it does not get loaded into the moving truck.

Day Before/Day of Move:

  • Work ahead. An early start eliminates stress and confusion.
  • Check your home one final time before leaving – is heat/air conditioning off? Are the lights off?  Has the water been shut off?
  • Give yourself plenty of time to get situated in your new apartment.
  • When items arrive check them carefully and, if working with a mover, note carefully on your paperwork any damaged items.

Being a future resident allows you to get to know your retirement community and the people in it on a much deeper level before you move.  Having that familiarity with your new home – plus being prepared for the details of your move – takes much of the stress out of the transition.  If you have additional questions about this process, we would be honored to assist you. 

We have lived with our dog Duke at Primrose since it has opened about 3 years ago. Being able to live in our home for many years was a gift but we knew that it was time to downsize and move to a smaller home. What we enjoy most here at Primrose is being part of a community. The people are wonderful, the activities are both educational and fun, and the food is amazing! Living so close to people keeps us both healthier and happier. We can come and go as we please, and take part in the activities that we wish to do. I think the advice I would give to others that are thinking about moving is to stop thinking about it. Moving to Primrose was the best thing that we have ever decided to do!


— Gloria and Jerry N.
After my husband passed away my place was too big for just me and I needed to downsize. Although I was apprehensive to move, being alone was lonely and I needed to be around people.

People are kind here and like a family. I look forward to simple things here like coffee time in the morning, the noon meal, and Happy Hour! There is always so much going on from ice cream socials, book club, and bridge, to just simply walking outside. A little secret that I want to share with the world… the staff is awesome, they really care!

— Janet G.

Primrose is a high quality residence where my grandmother currently lives. I’ve enjoyed my visits and my Grandma loves the environment and community, participating in many of its activities. The location is clean and the team there seems very friendly and caring. The pub is very cool and we’ve had impromptu family gatherings there.


— Mark K.

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