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When is it Unsafe for Loved Ones to Live at Home?

When is it Unsafe for Loved Ones to Live at Home?

We all want our loved ones to remain safe and healthy in their retirement years.  It should be a time for them to enjoy the freedom and independence that comes as a reward for a lifetime of hard work and dedication.  According to AARP, nearly 90% of people over age 65 want to enjoy their retirement from the comfort of their own home.  For those dealing with physical ailments and responsibilities of home maintenance, living at home can sometimes be more of a danger than a benefit.

_K0C7052What to look for

Apart from the outward appearance of loneliness and isolation that is often brought on by living alone, what other warning signs should a loved one be on the lookout for?

1. How are they eating? Stop by for a meal with your loved ones periodically.  While you are there, have a look in their refrigerator and their pantry.  Do you see fresh fruits and vegetables, milk, eggs, etc.?  Or do you see a lot of processed foods, soda pop, sugary breakfast cereal, and instant dinners?  If so, this could be a sign that dietary needs are not being properly met and they could benefit from the balanced diet provided in a retirement community setting.

2. How clean and well-maintained is the house? If the lawn and landscaping is unkempt, or if the inside of the house is cluttered and disorganized, this could also be a warning sign.  Aging loved-ones who struggle with maintaining their homes are at risk for injury that could result in hospitalization.  They could benefit immensely from a retirement community setting where the maintenance is provided for them and the environment is free from injury-causing hazards.

3. Is forgetfulness becoming an issue? If you notice that your loved ones are often confused, or more forgetful than they used to be, they may be at risk.  Many things can cause forgetfulness including poor nutrition and mismanagement of medications.  In a retirement community setting, they not only receive balanced meals, but they can also get help to ensure that medications are taken when needed and in the right dosages.

A little help goes a long way

The Administration on Aging reports that an estimated 12% of seniors age 65 and older – more than 5 million in total – need some type of assistance with long-term care to perform activities of daily living.  If your loved ones are among this group, take heart!  There are many options available – many of which can make their retired years healthier and happier.

Spend some time researching senior living communities.  Get to know the options available in your area.  This will help prepare you to talk to your loved ones about a possible move.  If you have additional questions about what a senior living community brings to the table, Primrose would be honored to assist you.  Just visit www.primroseretirement.com for additional information.

We have lived with our dog Duke at Primrose since it has opened about 3 years ago. Being able to live in our home for many years was a gift but we knew that it was time to downsize and move to a smaller home. What we enjoy most here at Primrose is being part of a community. The people are wonderful, the activities are both educational and fun, and the food is amazing! Living so close to people keeps us both healthier and happier. We can come and go as we please, and take part in the activities that we wish to do. I think the advice I would give to others that are thinking about moving is to stop thinking about it. Moving to Primrose was the best thing that we have ever decided to do!


— Gloria and Jerry N.
After my husband passed away my place was too big for just me and I needed to downsize. Although I was apprehensive to move, being alone was lonely and I needed to be around people.

People are kind here and like a family. I look forward to simple things here like coffee time in the morning, the noon meal, and Happy Hour! There is always so much going on from ice cream socials, book club, and bridge, to just simply walking outside. A little secret that I want to share with the world… the staff is awesome, they really care!

— Janet G.

Primrose is a high quality residence where my grandmother currently lives. I’ve enjoyed my visits and my Grandma loves the environment and community, participating in many of its activities. The location is clean and the team there seems very friendly and caring. The pub is very cool and we’ve had impromptu family gatherings there.


— Mark K.

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